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Saturday, 20 January 2018

How to stop your spouse from cheating

Ericadianas 08:29:00 Intimacy , 8 Comments

when choosing a spouse, you must be able to conclude in your mind the right person for yourself after passing through the courtship stage. A spouse can be said to be a man or woman who is legally married.

Religiously, when God created man in his own image, he have to make man sleep and he remove one of his ribs and created woman. Until you find your missing ribs, you have found your own spouse. That is every man has a missing ribs and until you found this mission ribs, you will be able to have confidence in yourself that you found a good spouse. In the world today, the rate at which couples divorce eachother is very alarming due to the fact one of the parties is cheating on the other and that has led to broken relationship. An advise says, spend more on your marriage than your wedding party. that is, their are many wedding parties out there whereby thousands and millions of naira have being spent on it, still yet both parties still broke up within 5 years, probably one was cheating on the other.

Some people believes that, they can't depend on one body for the rest of their lives, so they believe having a cheating partner settles the score. Taking the men for example, they don't cheat just because they don't love you anymore, they just want more varieties in their sex life. Some men have the mentality that the best time to cheat on their spouse was when she will be observing her menstrual cycle. Men cheat for many reason, some for pleasure, some for the fun while some sees it as a game. When a man cheat, their is still assurance that she will still love his spouse but when a woman tries to cheat, no how she will love her spouse like before. In other to get rid of this undefined act, there are some principle, guidelines, rules and regulations for you to act on in other for you to be able to stop your spouse from cheating

*BELIEVE*

Whenever you go into a relationship with your spouse, you must have the right believe that things will work out because it is when you have such believe that things will work well but if you are doubting or you never believe in your mind that it is going to work well, then have it in mind that one of you will surely cheat on each other. Even the Bible verse says that until two people agree, that when they can walk together. Both you and your spouse must be in one accord and believe that the relationship will work. If no one believe in the other, it is is possible for your spouse to cheat on you because he/she will believe that if things did not work out as planned in the relationship, he/she will have nothing to loose. Make your spouse have the confidence and believe in you that even if no one is with eachother, both parties mind will be at rest that the relationship is save

*STAY FAITHFUL*

Whenever you are not faithful in your relationship and you started letting your spouse feel insecure and start doubting you, then their is a problem because the relationship will start becoming unworkable. To stay faithful in a relationship, you have to turn blind eyes and dead ear to anything that might try to distract the relationship from growing. Being faithful with your spouse will make you have more level and respect you deserve. Be clear with your spouse in an appropriate boundaries as much as possible. Never leave a space for doubt, let your spouse know when another party is trying to draw your attention from the relationship, so that there will be a right and better way to fix it in the right path.

*GIVE LITTLE SPACE*

Never give your spouse so much unwanted attention whereby they will ever think you are suspecting them of cheating. Learn to build in an atmosphere of security and safety. Monitoring your spouse footsteps will always cause untrust, never check their private materials without their consent. Make your spouse free with his/her friends, respect your spouse feelings, both physical and emotional.

*LOVE YOUR SPOUSE*

One of the factors, feeling and emotion that makes a relationship stronger is love. When you love your spouse and he/she is aware of It, for your spouse to cheat on you will be a little bit difficult. True love is like any other strong and addicting drug, the love for your spouse should be like a prison whereby he will be cage and won't have any other thought of cheating. Love is only interesting to those who have being imprison by it. Live is like a wind where you can only feel but you can't see. Loving your spouse should be what you most show everyday and everywhere and also let spouse feel the real zeal of love in you. One of the most critical element of happiness is loving someone that also loves you. You should also know your spouse favorite and let your spouse know your best mood of showing love. Talk about each others weakness and know more on how to strengthen it.

*BE SATISFIED*

Whatever you have must be what you will be contented with. Being satisfied with your spouse will save the relationship. Be ready to give your spouse the best sex position he/she will love and enjoy and must be satisfied before getting up and also give your spouse the chance to try new things with you. This will make your spouse to be satisfy with you only, instead of going outside to find someone that can satisfy him/her. Whenever you see things and materials you know your spouse love, instead of overlooking it, you can just get it for your spouse and the love bound will be tightened.

*BE APPRECIATIVE*

Learn to appreciate your spouse, no matter how small what he/she might do to you, everything should be appreciated. When you appreciate, it give your spouse the zeal and more eager to do more for you. Appreciating your spouse is one of the key in building your relationship with each other. When you appreciate your spouse, you are bringing out the greatness and potential of the relationship. Appreciate whatever your spouse buy for you and also appreciate whatever you contribute in the relationship, and show the appreciation act everyday.

*SUPPORT YOUR SPOUSE DREAM*

You must be able to support your spouse dream by giving her every encouragement and passion to do more. Your spouse dream should also be part of your dream because you are now one body and whatever the outcome of her dream is, will also affect you. When you support your spouse dream, your focus will no longer come out ahead as an individual , it will now be of you and your spouse

Wednesday, 17 January 2018

How To Get Your Ex Back

Ericadianas 20:20:00 Intimacy , 49 Comments

HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK: 6 proven strategies to break the Hex.

There are several reasons you might want your ex back. After all, there was a reason you guys dated in the first place. There was a reason you guys used to look at each other in the eye and whisper sweet nonsense in your ears. And there is a possibility you still have a thing for your ex.

Or it could be you fell out on bad terms and did not settle down to trash the matter. Even distance and silence could make the onetime love of your life your Ex.

So here are six steps to get your Ex-partner back. These are tested and trusted ways to go back to that perfect relationship. Or you just want to get your ex back into the friend zone where his help could be needed anytime any day.

Feel to drop your advice and comments when I am done dropping these words of wisdom.

1. DISCONNECT YOUR EX FROM YOUR LIFE.

Yes dear, cut off everything associated with your ex. Block the guy on Facebook. Delete the babe's number on WhatsApp. Unfollow his Instagram handle.

This is the first step to getting your ex back. Ironic, isn't it? This is where you follow the "out of sight, out of mind" principle. A major reason (or probably the most important reason) you and you ex are not together is because you became normal. He began to see your flaws and started underrating you. You were no longer the guy she used to save his DP and show to our friends telling them how cute you were.

But it is time to double your principles. Ever heard "Scarcity creates necessity? " This is what this first step is for.

Make yourself scarce. Create an illusion that you have better things to do than sulk on your ex and like all his Facebook posts.

2. FIX YOUR BAD HABITS.

Yep, that is the next step. The longer the relationship, the more you tend to expose your flaws. However, bad habits are a turnoff in any relationship.

Everybody has their own bad habits. Identify yours and stop them.

This cannot be over emphasized. Some relationships eventually turn to parasitism as time runs by.

"Baby, what did you eat today? "

"Bae, can I come over? "

"Dear, what did you cook today? "

"Babe, can you come over? "

"Sweetheart, what are you doing right now? "

The above are not signs of love or care. They simply show you are clingy and your self-esteem depends on your relationship. This is probably another reason your ex is an ex in your life. So build your self-esteem.

You are beautiful, breathtaking with wonderful talents and abilities.

The moment you tell these words to yourself, you will realize you will be more valuable in any relationship.

4. IMPROVE YOUR APPEARANCE.

Haba, who won't leave you when your appearance is shabby and nonattractive. Try to look good every time (or at least most of the time).

You have heard "Dress the way you want to be addressed" abi? Apply it to your appearance.

Buy new set of clothes. Wash your old clothes very well. Brush your teeth. Maintain an awesome hairstyle consistently. Have good footwear and the most important tip of all;

Wash your undies or boxers regularly abeg. And let me see if your ex will come running after you. But after applying the remaining two steps though.

5. SPEND TIME WITH OTHER PEOPLE

Hmm, it is now time to unleash the improved you. Your self-esteem has improved, your 'girl-boss' status is increasing, your 'I am awesome on my own' guy prestige keeps loading day by day. So what next?

It is time to connect.

Smile. Laugh. Speak with dignity. Eventually, the rumors will spread from the friends of the friends of your ex that you are available and better than ever.

6. IT IS TIME TO GET YOUR EX BACK. FINALLY.

I am sure you already know how to go about this step. You can WhatsApp her (Especially for those of us who still had our exes' number memorized?). Send him a friend request on Facebook. Call him and ask about his welfare.

But be casual. Gain the trust first. And everything will go as planned. And your ex will be in your arms. Or in your friendzone.

P.S: This advice is for relationships that ended on a wrong note or never ended well. If your ex is an abusive, psychopathic guy or a loudmouthed, badmouthed lady who loves to gossip. Leave the person alone and move on to a new relationship. 2018 is not for hanging around toxic people.

Feel free to share and let me know if I left any tip untouched or this advice will not work (or did not work for you).

Friday, 5 January 2018

How to Get a Boyfriend This Year

Ericadianas 08:58:00 Intimacy , 3 Comments

Getting a boyfriend is no longer as funny as it used to sound. I know of someone who has shed tonnes of tears because she couldn't get a boyfriend for 3 years. Lol. Just imagine a young vibrant female not having a significant other for that amount of time. Having just any boyfriend isn't usually the struggle. it boils down to finding someone that suites you, understands you and can fit into your niche. To find someone that fits into your criteria, you have to step up your game and become someone that can fit into other people's criteria. I have put together some tips to get your own boyfriend this year.

Reduce the membership of your friendzone association:

C'mon it's a new year, you can't carry over so many people in your friendzone from last year to this year. it's either you completely delete some people from the zone or you start serious considerations of being in a relationship with those that you are matchable with. Often times, there are a lot of diamonds hidden deep down in the friend zone. I have a friend who is currently married to a guy she has friendzoned for ages just because she decided to start seeing beautiful possibilities.

Have a strong personality:

If you want a boyfriend with a strong personality, you must first build yours. Groom your confidence level and maintain a good communication character and general manners. You wouldn't expect to keep a great guy when you've sourly spoken to him on your first conversation.

Do not appear available:

Many girls make themselves extremely available to any Tom, Dick and Harry in the Quest of finding a man. Everybody in Nigeria right now wants to die for petrol because it is unavailable so it is valuable. I'm not saying that you should act as though you are too busy for men when you are actually jobless, I'm just saying you should take your time. Live your life as freely as you can and don't just jump in the sight of any man that cares to ask for your name. Have some refrain and let them run a little Chase.

Dress "attractively fashionable":

You become noticed when you are attractive and when your fashion statement is classy and bold. Don't underdo nor overdo. Be comfortable, bold and attractive. I mean, you have to first be attractive to be noticed and then observed.

Groom yourself:

It's a new year so you have step up your game. irrespective of whether you want a boyfriend or not. Keep your body and shape in good health. Eat, rest, sleep, hit the gym if you can. You cannot comman kill yourself because of boyfriend search o.

Go out:

Mohammed has to go to the mountain this time around. Enjoy every bit of your life. Go to the movies, club, church, pool, events, weddings, work, any where. Just have a good time living your life. Who knows, your boyfriend to be might just be sitting next to you in the movie threatre.

Have an open mind and be reasonable: You should know what you want but be open minded. Anyone can be the one. Be reasonable with your judgements and be lavish in openness.

All these tips are easier said than done so make a conscious effort to practising them.

P.S: If I could write this for getting a boyfriend, I wonder what I would write for getting a husband.

Thursday, 21 December 2017

2017 recap: Love always leaves

Ericadianas 13:43:00 Intimacy , 2 Comments

Meeting you was one of the best things that happened to me in 2017. You made me feel fly, you made me feel love, you made me look smart, you made me feel extremely happy. Looking into your eyes took my breath far away to a land I had never been to. Watching you move around made me feel like i was the most lucky woman to have you right in front of me. I could still remember how shy you were to ask for my number and how confident you were to tell me that everything would be alright in my days of shadows and downcast.

Friday, 21 April 2017

Lady Tries to Convince Her Crush to Date Her with a Powerpoint Presentation

Ericadianas 11:28:00 Intimacy , 0 Comments

This lady tried to convince her crush to date her by sending him a powerpoint presentation giving him "solid" reasons. Its really so creative and hilarious.

Point 1 and 2

Point 3 and 4

Finally.....

Just before I started feeling good for her, I heard that the guy told her never to contact him again. Quite Savage.

I'm old and unmarried

Ericadianas 10:56:00 Intimacy , 1 Comments

I'm Old and Unmarried.

That airless moment when life is moving faster than you.

You just sit down and realise you are old.

You no longer care about the things that used to drive you crazy.

You can't wear that crazy jean anymore because your 16 years old sister wears it.

You see yourself attending weddings...Either you are the chief bride's maid, a bride's maid, an usher or just a random observer.

Then it hits you hard like rock! Most of your friends are married and have left you in the world of "singlehood and unmarried"

You try to calm down and think about ways to make your life work out.

Maybe you should go out more often...smile often...dress single....look searching but not desperate....go to relationship seminars and probably go for deliverance (as some of your relatives have advised)

Finally, in the midst of all this heat; you meet someone... He's cool, fun, good looking and well to-do.

You both get along really well and your heart starts leaping for joy.

Maybe this is it....This might be the end of the road for you....Maybe you found him.

He asks you out and after playing hard to get... You finally find yourself drooling in the warmth of his affection and spinning in the web of love.....You start imagining yourself as a married woman and this guy as your husband.

Unfortunately, you find out you are few years older than him.

You try to still give it a chance but reality shoots in like AK-47.

You are a Nigerian girl and people would talk. Mama wouldn't agree.... Papa would forbid....and his family members....Well, they'd disagree too.

Wicked coldstoned Nigerian mentality swept your feet away and pushed you into the ocean of life, leaving you to sink like titanic.

Maybe relationship wasn't meant for you afterall....

Maybe you were meant to be like your secondary school literature teacher who wasn't married at 50.

Maybe you'd never find happiness.

Maybe you are asking for too much.

And maybe you should "pause".....stop trying....focus on yourself...eat....grow younger....wear what you like......dance....and accept yourself for who you are.....fall in love with yourself and the things you like......then let the wind of life blow you into the positive direction of your mind.

I realized that being worried about things make little or no difference compared to being happy about them. It's always about travelling in the process of finding yourself....the moment you stop living out your happiness, you stop existing within your own self.

You might get too worried and then miss it. Trust me when I say that if you relax, and emit positive vibes.....You would be surprised to see yourself on the alter saying "I do" with your "Mr Right". Then, It'll be bye-bye to your old and unmarried self.

Sunday, 19 March 2017

Can a Born Again Christian Become a Male Gynecologist?

Ericadianas 05:57:00 Intimacy , 6 Comments

This question has been trending on Nairaland and I must say at a point I even got confused as to what my views were.

Now, a gynecologist is a doctor who treats medical conditions and diseases that affect women and female reproductive organs. Will it not have an impairing effect on a man's holiness to observe a woman's private region all in the name of profession? (Last last, body nor be fire wood o.) Can the flesh and its [sexual] urge be fully tamed in such cases?

Well, my view on this issue is that, doctors (whether male or female) are trained to see a patient's "body" as what is subjected to treatment and nothing more. After a number of years of studies and practice in the field of medicine, they learn to understand their profession from that angle.

Even if not so, it will be unwise to have male doctors perform surgical operations on the female folks (and vice versa) because in most surgeries, patients are usually unclad.

Come to think of it, it is actually better to have a male believer (gynecologist) who has learned to walk by the spirit and not by the flesh than an unbeliever who can easily be swept away by lust.

Whether a believer is a gynecologist or not, he/she can still possess lustful desires if the heart is not properly guided. So it's about the heart and not the profession.

Then again, what would one say about Lesbian gynaecologists, Female Urologist who deals with male genitals, Surgeons, and many other such professionals?

What's your opinion about this??

Thursday, 16 March 2017

How To Test If She Is Wife Material (40 Tests)

Ericadianas 09:40:00 Intimacy , 5 Comments

Wife Material and husband material has become one of the most used phrase by single men and women who place standards that their partners must meet.

It is somehow funny how most single Nigerian men place too high moral standard for women they wish to get married to. The same way women place so much financial expectations on their dream husband.

In men’s words, she has to be wife a material, 12 yards of sample lace and more and in women’s world, his bank account needs to be overflowing.

According to a list shared by an eligible Nigerian bachelor who intends to get married in 2017, below are the wife material requirements for women who should apply.

[List Updated by BuzzNigeria]

1. Should have natural hair.
2. Minimum of a University degree preferably in the sciences. Masters degree is an added advantage.
3. Satisfactory income source backed by bank statement.
4. A tigress in bed and a great cook.
5. No tatoos or unusual body piercings. Should have an hour glass body.
6. Able to sustain an intellectual conversation as well as an awesome sense of humor.
7. Attach written recommendations from at least 2 former boyfriends.
8. Knowledge of public relations. That is awesome.
9. Fluent in at least 2 international languages.
10. Well trained in home management and hospitality.
11. Demonstrated ability to make a man successful.
12. Must have a great character.
13. No previous record of cheating.
14. No previous record of abortion.
15. No previous record of double dating.
16. No previous record of affair with a married man.
17. Must be fertile.
18. HIV negative and free from other deadly STDs.
19. Lack the ability to snore.

20. Possess the ability to multiply money.

The young man added that all applicants are advised to send their applications with their health and birth certificates attached.

Similarly, relationship expert Joro Olumofin, wrote an open letter to Eligible Bachelors in Nigeria giving them test tips that a woman should pass before they make her their wife.

He wrote,
“Dear Eligible Bachelors in Nigeria, a lady who doesn’t pass this test is NOT a wife material.”

Surprisingly, Joro’s list of tests has little similarities with the above wife material list. This is an indication that most Nigerian men want similar qualities from their wife to be.

Joro says he was inspired by a conversation he had with a couple. He realized that unlike in the days of our parents when getting a bride was based on family reputation and recommendation, it is harder these days to identify the ONE because of social media and wedding pressure.

Here are a few tests you can run on a prospective wife or lover:
1. Ask her on a date using Keke Marwa, BRT or danfo Bus even if you have a car
2.Tell her no makeup artist, professional photographer on your wedding, because you’re saving up.
3. Say you forgot your wallet on a date and see how she reacts.
4. Tell her you lost your
job or you want to pursue your dreams OR you’re quitting your job to be a DJ or barber.
5. Wake her up by 3am in the morning to make you Eba and Okro soup.
6. Tell her you’re celibate and you don’t want sex till marriage.
7. Tell her you want to resign your job to be a worker in the house of God with little income.
8. Get her all dressed up and take her to a fast food joint.
9. If you have a beard, shave it all up Tell her to courtesy by kneeling while serving you food.
10. Propose without a ring.
11. Tell her your mother and 2 siblings are moving in with you after marriage
12. Tell her she must attend mid-week service and join the choir mistress gild.
13. Tell her you’re going country, leaving the city and moving to Iyana Iba or mowe ibafo
14. Tell her to add your mom, dad and all siblings on social media and bbm
Read Also: How to Identify A Good Wife To Be In Nigeria [Part I]
15. Only on April fools tell her you got a University girl pregnant. Only on Aprils Fool Day.
16. Tell her you’re going for a course and she should wait for you. be it (MSc, MBA, Phd).
17. Tell her your mother will be cooking for you.
18. Tell her she can’t watch Zee world or Telemundo anymore.
19. Tell her to go Natural. No makeup, weave-on or attachments.

20. Fellas, trust me. try this. You will thank me later. Watch her facial Expressions and body language you will get the true “ID” persona/archetypes of your partner.

In a nut shell, with or without the above criteria people still get married every Saturday. At the end of the day, it’s a matter of finding that one person who is not perfect but has strengths that compliment your weaknesses and flaws that your strength can uphold.

NB: The above wife material criteria were created for the purpose of humor. Readers are advised to use discretion.

Credits: BuzzNigeria

Saturday, 11 March 2017

Japanese Couple Wearing Matching Outfit for 37 Years

Ericadianas 08:56:00 Intimacy , 1 Comments

This cute pair of Japanese Couple have been making a strong statement with their incredible fashion style (I practically envy them). They've always been found wearing matching outfits and this has earned them fame on social media.

They currently possess an instagram handle @bonpon511. According to the account, 511 is an aniversary date as they got married on 1980.5.11 (how cute!)

So please, if you happen to come by my future husband, help me announce to him that we'd be on a course to matching outfits everyday. (Lol)

Below are more pictures from their IG account

😍

Monday, 27 February 2017

Does S*x On The First Day Means She's Cheap?

Ericadianas 16:52:00 Intimacy , 2 Comments

How true is it? How true is the fact that a girl who opens her legs on the first day is cheap and easy. She is unregarded, not wife material, often times dumped and seen as a hoe with no values.

When a girl plays hard to get for five months, she becomes important and glorified right? She is automatically useful and respected, she is adored and wanted, she's a "take home". S*x is finally called love making and not "straffing"

How true is it?

Tuesday, 14 February 2017

10 Things Not to Do on Valentine's Day

Ericadianas 04:10:00 Intimacy , 0 Comments

Over the years I have seen people go crazy about the whole Valentine's day thing. Some of them get it perfect, others freak out and then end up spoiling it, some lose their relationships, and a handful of others just sit in their houses feeling unloved. Generally, i figured that there are some things just not to do on Valentine's day and trust me, they are simple to abide by.

1. Bring along a third wheel.

No matter how much your bff wants to tag along, just don't bring them along on your Valentine's date.

2. Go and see fifty shades of grey.

Biko, don't try it. Don't watch any form of movie as such or alike cause its gonna so kill the Valentine spirit. And then, tif you want sex....sugar coat it.

3. Surprise her with nothing.

Ladies like surprises even though most of them would not admit it. They could tell you that Valentine means nothing to them or that they don't want anything or they don't wanna go anywhere but my brother, please do the opposite of this if you want to blow her mind. And to the ladies, surprise your man as well.

4. Flowers and boxers.

Believe it or not, in Nigeria some Gifts just don't count and they can bring curses rather than pleasantries. Do not get for a nigerian lady flowers except you know that she definitely likes them. Then ladies, try and explore the market. Just try. I'm sure you'll find wonderful things other than boxers and singlets.

5. Make it more important than the relationship.

Honestly, Valentine is just a day and its not the first neither will it be the last in the world. It is totally not a do or die affair. Some relationships on Valentine's day break because people's ("girls") expectation skyrockets and when they get anything below their imaginations they explode and kill the whole reason for Valentine.

6. Save the prank for April 1st.

If you are the type that while others are having romantic ideas, you are constructing prank techniques then get over it. Valentines are romantic and are not meant to tag anyone "April's fool"

7. Text your ex.

Really....don't try it. Wrong timing.

8. Same old routine.

Valentine is not the day to go to the same restaurant or watch the same movie that you've seen together for the 100th time. Rather, its a day to be spontaneous and to explore new adventures.

9. Pass out.

Lol. Please don't sleep on the date.

10. Make singles feel sad.

Don't make any of your single friend feel like they should die because they ain't dating. Just keep your cool and still make them feel special.

Sunday, 22 January 2017

The slutty bride

Ericadianas 00:13:00 Intimacy , 0 Comments

Tears were pouring down her eyes as she stared at herself in the mirror. She looked flawless in her wedding dress still I couldn't help but feel terrible for her. She was to get married in two weeks, her "husband to be" and her had made all the necessary preparations and the whole atmosphere was butterflies filled.'He said I slept with Jackson....when?? How??' Now she was crying more and her fancy make-up was ruined. (Maybe its cause I used a cheap foundation that wasn't waterproof)

Friday, 6 January 2017

The most annoying pre-wedding pictures

Ericadianas 08:08:00 Intimacy , 0 Comments

The first word that came to my head when I saw this pictures yesterday was 'why?'. Lol... I mean, what are they trying to prove? How did their reasoning get to this poses?? Well, I don't think I'll get answers anytime soon.

Biko, maybe it's just me o but what do you think about these pictures??

Wednesday, 4 January 2017

What's the weird thing that attracts you to the opposite sex

Ericadianas 08:45:00 Intimacy , 7 Comments

So I was on Nairaland few days back and I saw a post on the front page that caught my attention or rather attracted it. It reads "What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex".

"Of course it'll be his personality" I thought to myself but opening the page opened my eyes to loads of funny things that attract people to the opposite sex and I thought I'd share with you guys.

Here were what some of the comments looked like.

"When he wears white" Oko celestial?

"Her voice...some girls voice makes me feel cold inside so I usually ask them for voice notes on whatsapp"

"Common sense"

"Toe nails" This one shock me.

"Sense of humour"

"Boooooooobs"

"Yellow backside"

"The smell of natural hair"

"sophisticated, contagious laughter"

grammer!

"White teeth"

"Big asssssss"

"Tiny leg like pencil" OmG

"Dimples"

"Bob risky coloration"

"Ladies that watch football"

"Potbelly"

"Armpit smell"

"Similar taste in music"

and the other commenters left out the "weird" in the post and just answered generally.

So I had to have a rethink on a weird thing that attracts me to a guy and I figured it was when they wore white diamond made shoes. Biko don't judge me.... Drop your own weird attraction in the comment box below.

To read all exciting comments on this trend on Nairaland, please click here.

Wednesday, 28 December 2016

Rape is unwanted s*x between husband and wife.

Ericadianas 07:42:00 Intimacy , 5 Comments

I was surfing wiki-how yesterday and I came across this. I was really surprised when I saw it. I thought being married meant "I own your body at all times" but apparently it seems otherwise.

Saturday, 24 December 2016

11 sure signs she is no longer interested in you

Ericadianas 15:38:00 Intimacy , 2 Comments

"Here I was, thinking she was still in love with me this past one year" he said to me as he turned to face me with brokenness in his eyes. I never knew guys too could get heartbroken till I saw my 26 year-old cousin torn apart after he found out his 3 year-old relationship had turned out to be a total waste of time, money, energy and emotions.

Wednesday, 23 November 2016

What you didn't know about condoms

Ericadianas 05:42:00 Intimacy , 6 Comments

ARTICLE by an Anonymous blog reader.

The door was abruptly opened as hands, mouths and legs moved rhythmically to the sounds of passionate moans. Tunde had been dying to bring this girl over to his house but she had been playing hard to get. Now that she was finally here, he had made up his mind to enjoy every bit of her, even till his ancestors are satisfied.

Thursday, 3 November 2016

He is broke and he can't buy me an iPhone7

Ericadianas 07:07:00 Intimacy , 0 Comments

Dear female child

You sit with your friends in groups lashing the broke guys and calling them names

"mumu" "idiot" "Otundo" "Shameless rabbit"

All because he can't buy your cream, buy you an iphone7, make your hair, fix your nails, your eyelashes, take you out, buy your clothes and make your expensive dreams come true.

He is not God and he cant supply all your needs and you are just as broke as him, if not you''ll be able to take care of your self.

Friday, 28 October 2016

He cheated with my best friend

Ericadianas 11:20:00 Intimacy , 1 Comments

"So we were both dating and as usual, i was cruising in deep love. I have dated this guy for three years and everything totally seemed to be fine. I'm a student and he is working in an engineering firm where he is handsomely paid. He is everything, he takes me around the place and buys me heaven and earth, in fact I am literally married, the difference is just that we are living apart. He met with my friends and really flowed with them, I was happy that that he could communicate with my friends and we became one big and happy family.

Monday, 24 October 2016

We were in love, but now it's boring

Ericadianas 21:19:00 Intimacy , 4 Comments

You both will kiss in public and it becomes inevitable to stop repeating romantic words.

"One minute remaining"

The annoying MTN female will always announce after 45 minutes of non stop talk and cheers.

You immediately will recharge your phone with your bank account and continue the 11:59pm call with your one and only cause you are using MTN and the other party is a GLO user